I've just briefly perused this thread...
Since it started by stating that God needs to be kept out of it... I beg to differ.
One of the reasons Alcoholics Anonymous is so good at what it does, is because of their tenets. Here are the 12 steps/tenets.
1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twelve-step_programWhether the higher power you submit yourself to is God or otherwise, the only way to conquer alcoholism is to submit your will to a higher power.
When you take the higher power out of the equation, for ANYTHING in life, we are left with naked humanity, and I know what humans are capable of. Take the higher power out of the picture, and we are left with humanity unchecked, without consequences. If humanity is the highest authority, then we're fucked.
There is no morality without a higher power or absolute truths.